To all the nice girls i know..

This is for that time when u left 40 urgent messages on his cell phone, and when you called him back he never answered.
This is also for that time you didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, you dragged yourself to a party where you knew nobody, the place was awful, and he flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for his ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.
The nice girls don’t often get credit where credit is due. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many guys are just illogical and manipulative . Many of them claim they just want to date a nice girl, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, she’s too nice to date” or “she would be a good girlfriend but she’s not for me” or “she already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask her out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable women in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date female friends to sympathize and apologize for the women that are jerks.
There are definitely many guys who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice girls, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those guys, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.
So, until those guys are found, I propose a toast to all the nice girls. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the grocery store, your party escorting services, your chauffering , your multi-tasking and your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless heroine, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming. 🙂

22 responses »

  1. kickass heenz… your chauffering service reminds me of those good ol’ days! i miss you beyond belief.. hope you find your nice guy soon!!! love ya :*

    • oh yeah!! n rem when v had a horrible time pataoing the pandu when v entered that no entry lane at Metro..hahah..u wr lk the best pataoer!!! 😉

      thanx for the comments hon!! 🙂

      • OMG! awsm stuff sweetie! 🙂 n soooo very true! evry bit of it…reminded me of my gud ol days 😉 😀 cheers to us! muwaaah

      • oh yes!!! i thot u n PD wud go lk “ on”… hahah.. miss the times bugs!!! 😦

      • girl!!! u got me into splits..i know i can handle ’em… 😉 but i rem you were all ready to hand him 500 bucks!! girl i know the country is poor but not they..not esp men!!! cheers!!! u got me rocking honey!! cheers to the most honest and loveliest heenz i know!!! 🙂

      • ssshhhhh…. start bickering will u.. m not used to having u say good things abt me..rem!!! 😉

  2. Just to let you know… all guys are not the same… and neither do I think that ‘most’ guys are like that… so let’s not stereotype everyone and come to a general consensus…
    I’m sure this is a topic that can go on and on both ways… 😀

  3. how mean is that!!!
    n u consider boys as your best friends heena!!! since when did u start standing in the mahilaon ki katar?!?! even in trains you wud travel with us!!! huh!!! just kidding.. on a serious note i found it really nice heena!!! but i just hope you publish the work that you havent coz thats much better than this!! trust me on that!!!

    • lolz!!!! yearite!!! dude it ws gud talking to u the other day!!! miss the long walks from bandra station to the church and from dadar station to siddhivinayak!!! hahah!! that used to be so much fun rem!!!

  4. oh yes!!! how can i forget THE WALKS!!! n how you turned me and sam into sm civilized religious species!!! 🙂 my mom says she still owes you.. 🙂 thanx for the contact with the big man up there!!! 🙂

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