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How to remove confusion in your life?

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Here is what I did to remove it from my life

Confusion happens only because:

We want everything we dont have (greed) and

We dont want to give up what we have (fear)

The first one can be resolved by simply

Choosing ONE thing – commitment

(does not matter what it is)

The second one automatically vanishes if you do the first one well. It is more a test of character than anything else

If it does not vanish then maybe you are just fighting too hard in your mind, and actually making it stay. Have faith on yourself & then on the world, let go

Life will give you exactly what you want if you are committed

Once you have chosen ONE thing

Just

Focus & Do ONE Thing (DOT)

Results will follow you dont need to worry about them.

By Sandeep Kochchar, Storyteller BleWMinds Consulting

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Maze of Life by Bhavna Rohilla

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A chirpy girl was walking in the MAZE OF LIFE.

She was delighted to meet a few people there which excited her, thinking who’s next.

After roaming a while she met a woman called failure, blocking her way. She became sad but then started again. After some time the situation repeated but she wasn’t the one to give up.

Trailing a little ahead she met a man called heartbreak blocking her, this hurted more than failure but she moved on & marked the path as lesson learned.

After a while of wandering she met two women, one named failure & other named empty pocket. She became gloomy with shattered life & broken dreams but she chose not to give up & learn the lesson.

Stepping slowly thinking who’s next & as she was thinking, she saw a man not to block her way but to give a clue to a right path, he was wisdom. Her eyes sparkled with a ray of hope.

Pacing positively, after a few paths she met a woman called success who gave a clue to complete the maze & then finally she traced the exit.

As she came out the maze’s creator asked, how did you complete while others are striving inside?

She smiled & said, “There is a price to be paid for everything”.

Going on 33

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I’m a 32 year-old writer, less than six months away from 33.

Over the weekend, my mom called me 35.

And I gulped.

Staring down the barrel of 40, the list of what I haven’t done is miles longer than what I have.

I haven’t written a book.

I haven’t been published in The Vogue, Femina, who’s who journal.

I’ve never penned an interesting story.

Nor appeared in print.

I haven’t founded a company, built a product, or been a Manager.

I’m not a “top-rated speaker.” Nobody’s paying me 100k, 10k, or even 1k to show up and open my mouth.

I’ve never gone viral.

All I am is all I am. And what I am is …

Wife to one husband.

Cheerleader to some amazing girls.

Yoga lover.

I have a job I love.

I work with unbelievably talented people who are wicked smart.

And I’m f****** good at what I do.

More importantly, I’m better at what I do today than I was a year and a half ago, a year ago, six months ago.

I’m sober.

My friends answer my calls and tell me the truth.

I’m a 32-year-old writer. Less than six months from 33.

So, yeah, life is pretty good, mom. Still … no need to rush things.

#Letsgetthisrolling #lifeasitgets

Reminder to self

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Life teaches you many a things. Here’s a list down from some of mine!

1) Everyone deserves a chance.

2) Help others not because of who they are, but because of who you are.

3) There are no overqualified candidates, only under-reported age discrimination.

4) A lie is a lie even if everyone believes it. The truth is the truth even if nobody believes it.

5) A great boss believes in you even when you do not.

6) You do not get rejected, you get redirected.

7) Your value does not decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.

8) We live for the moment to die for. When we make a difference in someone else’s life, it is one of those moments.

9) Help others achieve their dreams, and you will achieve yours

10) Nobody is too busy to help. It is just a matter of priorities.

11) Seek respect, not attention. It lasts a lot longer. Seek loyalty, not obedience. It is worth a lot more.

Have a fantabulous day peeps!!

Mistakes

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In one of the jobs i ever took I was wrongly informed and hired. Since I don’t take lying so well i revolted. The end result was someone not liking it at the top level and hence making sure I don’t like it at my level too.

I was NOT qualified for this kind of job which I had to stick to, to pay for myself. Another superior here took a big leap of faith to hire me anyways.

I knew I was not qualified, and I acted as such. I avoided making mistakes at all costs, and tried to control everything because mistakes would be less likely.

One day My superior called me into his desk and said “Hey, I want you to make sizeable mistakes, as many times a week for a period of next month or so.”

I was shocked at first, and then liberated next.

My creativity, initiative, and energy were unleashed. My superior was brilliant, he knew that the fear of making mistakes was holding me back.

Stop punishing people for mistakes, celebrate the mistakes as learning experiences.

Agree ?

Love like that….

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You never demanded anything and it took me a while to get used to it,

To loving someone who never asked for more than how he felt,

It reflects on how we love that we’re conditioned to think it hurts,

And it does – of course it does.

But more than the times you’re hurt , you’re filled with a sense of awe,

For all the times that make you feel that your heart can’t contain the love you feel,

For all the times you lock your eyes with him and it feels that you two are alone.

For all the times your hand fins his and you never want to leave-

It took me a while to realise that this kind of love exist,

The kind that doesn’t demand that you give up loving yourself for you to love him ❣️

It is written!

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Keep fighting or accept what’s destined?

Sometimes…no matter what we do, what we wish or seek or what we work hard towards…what happens is different. Maybe what is written. what is meant to be. what is destined.

So shouldn’t we then stop fighting, change our goals and adapt. Shouldn’t we just accept what that present is offering? And work with it.

We all experience things not going as per our plan. Not seeing results. Then wouldn’t it be wise to Pause. Pause, analyze and rework our goals. Because, sometimes when we stop fighting and accept what is meant to be, we get focus. We can then channelize our time and energy and work with what present is offering.

Adapting is better than giving up, feeling disheartened and losing hope.

So, I hope for all who are trying very hard but seeing no results.. to pause, to re-evaluate, to adapt and keep going.